COREPLAY NOT FOREPLAY
It's anatomically impossible for over 80% of women to have an orgasm through penetrative sex. Why? Because their vestibular bulbs (the inner part of the clitoris) don't touch the vagina.
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That can't be changed. It would be like hoping that one day your big toe can touch your heel. What can be changed is the narrative around female pleasure that is currently dictated by porn.
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What can be changed is prioritising the clitoris, and prioritising female pleasure as well as male.
Foreplay is the main act for women. Don't rush it and definitely don't leave it just for the start.
START TALKING
We have created a culture of shame in sex which often results in fake orgasms, because everyone's trying to avoid the same thing: Shame
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Shame for women that they aren't getting pleasure in the way they think they should.
Shame for men that they aren't getting the results that porn makes look so easy.
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All this does is perpetuate the problem and make everyone feel even worse.